Badboy has long been someone who I’ve respected in the community. He has been teaching direct game, long before direct game became the norm. His ebook is still one of the best books on direct game out there.
So when Badboy sends out a list of openers, you can be damn sure I’m going to pass it along to all of you. Let me know what you think of them. Which one is your favorite? Any good openers you’ve used lately?
Badboy’s Top 5 Openers
1# Very Direct
“ You are so Damn sexy, (Pause) and I am going to get to know you (Pause) so tell me something about yourself (smile)
Delivery here is crucial. If you deliver good, in most cases they get shocked…and they are like “ so what you want to know?”
Me : “ Everything, but lets start with music.. what kind of music you listen”
From here go into Rapport (Wide & Deep), as this opener will provide you with lots of attraction. Its very easy to transition to any other topic. As frame you created allows it.
2# Bank Robbery
“Hey girls, are u good drivers? Me and Friend, are robbing bank across the street, and guess what (pause). Driver screwed us. All you need to do is picks us up at XX.00am, and drive to airport. You get 3%.
This always leads into good conversation, with good energy. This is my opener number 1# right now. They always want to negotiate their %. And they will ask for 5%
If zou want to create more drama here, start opener with this:
Hey girls, let me ask you something, can you keep a secret?
Girls :yes
You : OK… (opener)
Delivery must be Playful.
Be prepared to get lots of IOIs.
3# Oral sex
Hey girls, Let me ask you something (pause) Oral sex on first date (pause) Yes or No?
This is my new one. They get shocked because you are so bold. I usually fallow up with a story :
See, they did study about this in Cambridge, and they found out that couples that had oral sex on first date, stayed together very very long time. Some of them even got married. And I have this date tomorrow, and I would like to have something with her, but, I really don’t want to get married. do you believe in this bullshit, or you fallow your instincts?
Changing topic here is very easy. No need to transition to direct, as you are already there.
4# Best Friend Just Died
Hey girls, let me ask you something, my best friend just dies, and his girlfriend started hitting on me.. how long should I wait before I start dating her?
This one is so much fun.
Usually they say ‘wait 6 months’
Me : really? Because she started hitting on me after funeral, and guess what happened yesterday, I received fedex package with her panties… and they were still wet. I mean, that’s to much for me. Don’t get me wrong, I would do her, but I just cannot imagine my best friend Mike looking me from above saying… ‘and that was my best friend’ …
Change topic after few minutes, and get to know them.. If they are coming bck on opener, transition to direct
Actually, I didn’t came here to talk about my dead friend, I came because you are so damn sexy, and I am going to get to know you… so tell me something about yourself
5# Does Size Matters?
Hey girls, lets me ask you something.. does size really matters?
Girls : yes/no
You :Interesting, because friend of mine has this huge, huge (pause) car, and he gets none, while my other friend has this tiny, tiniest ( pause) vespa and he gets all of the girls… whats up with that?
This opener will always get them think about..hmmm… but that’s why you move to something else. I found it very effective after 3 minutes, to transition to direct
Actually, I didn’t came here to talk about my stupid friend, I came because you are so damn sexy, and I am going to get to know you… so tell me something about yourself
When you open with something like this, and conversation either stays too long in that topic, OR each time you try to change topic, they go back on opener, use this above transition. Its very Powerful frame destroyer.
Wide & deep Rapport from here (so what kind of music you listen)?
If you guys like this style check out the ebook that made me famous. Read Badboy’s ebook.
Badboy
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December 19, 2007
Man, I really like Badboy’s style. He is my favorite seduction guru!
December 19, 2007
I’m using ‘bank robber’…so easy and perfect for my game
December 19, 2007
Anyone have his ebook?? I was about to buy it until i found out it was $40… I’ll throw away $20 based on the fact that he has a reputation…but I’m not paying $40 if I don’t know for sure he’ll introduce me to new material, mindset, etc…
December 19, 2007
…lol ..not to mention, if his ebook is written as poorly as the above tips, I should get a discount for the extra time it takes to read his typing
December 19, 2007
its a toss up with the bank robber and dead friend one. idk i think the bank robber has some advantages(ima use em both) my fav opeaner right now is for day game that i use at stores, when the girl is working and walking around the store i usually say something like “damn are you gonna keep following me or are you gonna get the nerves to try to pick me up” she usually says something like aa or umm cuz you catch em off gaurd then imediatly i follow with “here ill help you with some pickup lines” and use the most ridiculus ones u can think off, gets em laughing 90% of the time and they usually set you up for kino by playfully putting her hand on your arm (when and if they do that i follow with “see now u are atcually hitting on me, but dont get any ideas, im not easy!”)
December 19, 2007
i like that
December 19, 2007
Mike,
Badboy is foreign so his English isn’t perfect. Ive been following his stuff for a few years and bought his CDs awhile ago.
His ebook is his newest creation with latest stuff, but i never read it so cant say for sure how it is.
I had a lot of success with his CDs… but ive always liked that style.
December 19, 2007
Thanks Johnny, I haven’t heard much direct game material so his stuff is intriguing at the moment.
..and I was just kidding about the bad English. I remember he was foreign from reading The Game
December 19, 2007
Interesting openers. Never been much for Direct Game. But might have to take a look at his work…
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December 19, 2007
Best friend is the funniest
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December 19, 2007
Badboy’s CDs are pretty good.
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December 20, 2007
I have his audio CDs and I just cannot bring myself to listen to them. It is not that the material is bad, it is just the delivery and his speaking. It is obvious that English is not his native language. I wish he would get someone to read the material for him.
I will probably buy and read his ebook. I can see by this sample that his ideas are intriguing. I wish he would get someone to proofread his writing though. Call me anal but I can see many grammatical and spelling mistakes just in this post. When your paying a good sum of money for an ebook you just expect such things.
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December 20, 2007
“Your” should have been “you’re” in my last comment. I think I need someone to proofread my comments
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December 20, 2007
lol all my comments have some kinda error but fuck it
December 29, 2007
kk Isn’t going direct agins everything Mystery sais… i dont know but i just dont get it
One Guru sais go behind the raidar while another goes SUPER direct ( ur soo damn sexy)
im soooooooooooooo confused!!!!!!!
December 29, 2007
Red,
Both styles work.. it really comes down to what your more comfortbale doing. When you’re new to this and not as confident Mystery’s stuff is a little easier.. but when your confident and secure then Badboy’s Direct Game (you’re so sexy) will work… but for direct game to work you REALLY need the attitude to go with it.. I’m not there yet, so i prefer going in under the radar… which seems to be working nicely for me.
December 29, 2007
I agree with Damien totally. When someone is a noob and is lacking confidence or good instincts, I think indirect is a valuable way to learn good conversation skills, feeling comfort with women and gaining confidence and developing instincts. As you grow your game, though, I think direct is eventually the next step. Both definitely have their place. I think indirect is especially good for HB 9s and 10s since they probably have their defenses up against direct all the time and you need something sneaky to get in there.
July 15, 2008
I love direct game. It feels a lot more natural for me.
I’ve been having more success with it. Why hide your intent? You are only holding yourself back.
-Seraf