A TSB Series:
Drake’s Tech Tips
Sebastian Drake of the Master the Vibe program will be writing a weekly column for us here at TSB. The column will be a quick tip that you can implement immediately. Sebastian has put out some really great stuff over the years and I’m looking forward to reading his tips over the coming weeks. Let us know what you think.
Hold This by Sebastian Drake
Women are always having men do little stuff - just because they can! When a man does one of these small gestures to a woman, she starts to see him on a whole different level.
Try this one:
The Venue: Bar, nightclub, or anywhere social with drinks.
Scenario: You’re holding a drink and talking to her. You’ve been talking at least 10 minutes.
The Tech: Say, “Here, can you hold this for me, I’ll be right back” and hand her your drink. Go to the bathroom, say hi to a friend, or whatever, then come back and say, “Ah, big thanks”.
Why? The small delegation is powerful and gets her wrapping her mind around you differently.
Warning: You lose 14% of your drinks doing this. Recommended that you drink half of it first. But the gain the other 86% of the time is worth it!
Have fun, keep playin’,
Sebastian
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March 3, 2008
This can be similarly applied to a scenario where she wants u do do sumthing for her, and u ask her to do sumthing for u and if she does that then u’ll do what she asks of u, correct?
March 3, 2008
Zeo,
pretty much.
i use this actual technique alot when im at parties. in fact, i used it this weekend on a set that opened ME. reason being was because i was too drunk to get my head together as far as running game, so i told them to hold my drink while i walked away to pretend to talk to my friends, then came back n ran proper game, the drunk version lol.
March 3, 2008
Hey there Seb, been a while. Glad you decided to write here.
My comment. I understand the value in this (setting up expectations and getting her to live up to them, etc), but don’t you think heading to the John, then talking to some friends would piss her off? This is geared more towards high self-esteem women. I’m imagining the whole tiem away at like 10 mins.
If you’ve been building a connection and moved her from her group (and she’s interested) she’ll be standing there, holding two drinks, looking like a fool.
March 3, 2008
I’ve been a fan of you writing so I’m excited to see you do a column here. I think tip of the week is perfect… this is something we can implement immediately.
I do wonder if Chase has a point though?
March 3, 2008
ive done this before, and i’ve never gotten a bad response from it.. but, the key here is to make sure you have raised your value enough before you do it,cuz if you still havent won her over, or if she doesnt like you, then it could result in pissing her off and or a loss of a drink. so be careful when you do it. just make sure you have enough buying temperature at first.
March 3, 2008
this is amazing!! going to use this hahaha
yo this is going to be exciting new people posting articles.
woot woot!
March 3, 2008
Fredex,
Thanks man. I’ve read about this b4 but since I can’t LEGALLY drink I really can’t use it so I’ve been trying to come up with variations for it.
March 3, 2008
Zeo, if your really doing well in a set, do what mystery does and use a Lock-in Prop. if your peacocking correctly, you should have a couple of small items you can take off and let her wear for a while while you go do whatever else. Mystery often uses his hat, and what it does is kinda show ownership of the girl temporarily, kinda like a jock who lends his letterman jacket to his girlfriend. she wears the hat or whatever you give her, and even if she moves around a bit, you still have a reason to re open her again later.
just make sure whatever prop you use isnt worth more then 5 bucks, otherwise you might lose some valuable shit lol.
March 4, 2008
I’ll have to try this when I turn 21.
Or when/if I get my fake ID
-Seraf
March 4, 2008
“Zeo, if your really doing well in a set, do what mystery does and use a Lock-in Prop. if your peacocking correctly, you should have a couple of small items you can take off and let her wear for a while while you go do whatever else. Mystery often uses his hat, and what it does is kinda show ownership of the girl temporarily, kinda like a jock who lends his letterman jacket to his girlfriend. she wears the hat or whatever you give her, and even if she moves around a bit, you still have a reason to re open her again later.
just make sure whatever prop you use isnt worth more then 5 bucks, otherwise you might lose some valuable shit lol.”
Haha yeah, make sure the prop is cheap XD.
This is a nice technique too, i usually use my sunglasses (aviator style) which not only catches attention, but i let them wear it too, once i’m in the comfort zone. - From here you could expand. Take pictures or let her wear it while you go somewhere. (don’t worry, the glasses are like £5 XD).
In general this is a good tip, and it doesn’t always have to be applied to night game with a drink, it could be anything and could be done at anytime (depending on the situation).
@ Chase i kinda agree, this is more effective on the high self esteem girls (kinda like a neg huh?). But if you do it sincerely to any other girl, basically you’re acting natural as if shez your friend..An element of trust?
Pzz
March 4, 2008
Excellent to have Sebastian share here. Always liked his teachings, MtV is great and I’m excited to read what he’ll be offering.
Good Work!
March 4, 2008
I agree, this is a big one. I actually believe that when a woman uses something like this as a test to see if she can get men wrapped around her finger. By doing something like this, you’re actually re-framing her. A good example of this goes as follows (I believe I got this from David Deangelo or something when he was gaming a hot celebrity):
PUA: gaming…blah, blah…
HBCelebrity: (not to interested)…oh yea
PUA: (takes out camera)
HBCelebrity: (thought) oh no..now I have to take a picture with this guy
PUA: (to wing) hey let’s take a picture, (hands camera to HBcelebrity) take a picture of us in this club
what it basically comes down to is reframing.
March 5, 2008
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March 6, 2008
i wouldnt really worry about this trick offending a confident girl - if she is put out by left standing there, she already doesnt like you.
the only thing i would watch out for is “asking” for it. dont start off by saying “hey can you do me a favor?”, or “will you do something for me?”. this kind of approach defeats the purpose of the power exchange. i know it can be counter-intuitive, especially if you arent already cocky. instead try something a little more challenging to her like “are you trustworthy?” or “are you the kind of shady girl who would walk off with a guys drink while he was gone?” follow this up with a “good, hold this, ill be right back”. the only other option i could suggest is to put some humor in it like “I’m going to leave my drink here with you, dont slip a roofie in it while im not looking!!”
March 6, 2008
I have to agree with athena…it makes no sense in doing it if you’re asking her “hey can you”…for some reason I picture a insecure guy asking in a weak and timid voice..”c-c-can you hold this for me”lol. yeah but it just has to be said “hold this” good stuff athena
March 7, 2008
Haha yeah athena has got a point, simply asking for it will just make you lose more value/power.. (which is the main point of getting in the first place! lol).
And yes adding humour would slightly ease her.
Damn Athena, sometimes i wish you were my wing XD.
Pzz
March 10, 2008
How do would you game the hot breezy giving the double birds??? >>>>
“Is that how you give yourself the Shocker??”
“I don’t do anal but thanks for offering”
Seriously though…could anyone honestly pull that chick if they saw her in bar dressed like that?
April 24, 2008
Of course, if a girl plays this on you (not uncommon) then say "sure"; then proceed to drink it. When she comes back say ‘Thanks that tasted real good. It shows her you’re no fool and gets (or adds to) a playful/teasing vibe. You can always buy her one to replace as you move to comfort/rapport.
Even if you don’t drink it make sure she knows she ‘owes you a favour’ (kiss on the cheek?) and that her ‘game’ did not go unnoticed by you.