I haven’t posted anything by Badboy in awhile but thought that this email I got from him was worth reposting. It seems that once aspiring pick up artists get comfortable opening, building attraction, they struggle in the comfort building phase.

The comfort building phase is important in a seduction. A girl needs to feel safe around you. The problem that most guys run into during comfort building is that they lose the girl’s interest. They generally lose a girl’s interest because once they’ve displayed some value to her, they get comfortable themselves and fall back into boring shop talk.

In this article below Badboy gives some great tips for avoiding shop talk and using the conversation to build rapport and amplify the attraction.

Direct Rapport 101 by Badboy

Have you ever been in a lounge, the music playing just loud enough to hear what the beautiful woman sitting next to you is saying, while conversing in a manner that makes you feel as if every man’s jealous eyes are watching your every move?

If you have yet to experience this, you’re missing out on one of the greatest pleasures in life. One that I didn’t have the ability to enjoy for a very long time, but do now regularly.

I’m going to reveal to you one of my best methods for making that exact scenario happen. I like to call it Direct Rapport.

What is Direct Rapport?

Women are attracted to the connection they FEEL with a man. Creating intense attraction that lasts is due to rapport. Rapport is the way you reveal more personal things to a woman, and if done correctly can be like a magnet constantly pulling at her heart strings. Imagine for a moment that you only get one flaky girl every 10 dates, or having a great one say “I’ve never felt this way around any man ever before!” That’s the result of wide and deep rapport which combine to make Direct Rapport a reality.

Wide Rapport

Wide rapport is the ability to touch on a wide range of topics to deepen the feeling of connection between her and you.

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