In this week’s podcast Mike Stoute and I talk about how to game a small social circles. Mike and I have had tremendous success gaming in our social circles.
In part 1 we share some of our tips for working these social circles. Gaming girls that you see on a regular basis is a different approach then hitting on random girls in a bar or club.
We also give some examples of how to get involved in social circles. Once you’ve involved yourself in a social circle how to go plan out the seduction.
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June 22, 2008
Patience is insanely crucial for the social circle arena. Everything happens way slower because you have way more time to display value, create attraction and develop an emotional connection. Playing in this arena, you also have to be very careful not to get ‘too’ close to your target girl. That emotional connection can shift the dynamics of the relationship into the ‘friends zone.’ And one thing I’ve realized is that women really value those ‘friend’ relationships. Unlike us guys where “let’s just be friends’ is like nails on chalk board, women are different. This is why it is never good to get too close to your target girl. Keep her at arms length. Tease her, build sexual tension and don’t really get to ‘know her’ until you can tell she already like you.
I completely agree with you guys in the sense that sleeping with the ‘wrong’ girl in the social circle can mess things up with other girls. It’s like they mark their territory and no one of her other friends wants to be a part of it. However, this isn’t always the case. If your sexual identity is strongly grounded and you make qualms about the fact that you sleep with a lot of women- some groups of girls will see you as a ‘fantasy man’ who can fulfill their sexual needs rather than a potential boyfriend/husband-to which only one can have. If that’s the case, you may be able to sleep with all of them. But of course, this isn’t always the case. The key is managing expectations and knowing what you want. I have girlfriends who I don’t sleep with but still hang out and go out with. they are still fun. They are still cool. And I prefer it this way. Likewise, I can call up girls that I’m sleeping with, ‘gaming’ or who have friends I am ‘gaming’ and I can go out with them as well. The more circles you have, the more women you will have in your life-period! cheers guys
-dthomas