TSB Field Reports: Last 35 Posts

TSB Field Reports: Last 35 Posts http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ TSB Field Reports: Last 35 Posts en Mon, 01 Dec 2008 17:25:53 +0000 Seraf on "Direct Game: 3 numbers under 5 min each + Instant Bounce" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=62#post-244 Tue, 15 Jul 2008 08:56:08 +0000 Seraf 244@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ Direct Game: Three numbers and instant bounce FR I’m not sure if I’ve mentioned this before, but my incredible wingman and even better friend Pula has been pushing my game since the summer began. I’ve dedicated the summer to improving my game. I remember when he set the goal for me. “Seraf, I can guarantee you right now. 3 months from now you will have lost your virginity.” I busted out my phone and used the calendar feature. Skipped ahead three months. “You think I’ll get laid by August 6th?” I asked him? “As long as you continue to improve yourself.” Pula has really been the driving force in becoming a better PUA. Still dazed by the cute girl I picked up from the grocery store, I texted her asking her if she wanted to tag along with me as I shop at the mall today. Seraf: What are you doing today? HB Watermelon: Shopping for furniture. I keep not getting a round to it but need to really do that haha Seraf: Cool. I need to shop for shirts and wine glasses as well. You should tag along with me :) What time are you free? HB Watermelon: No idea. Sorry, don’t mean to sound flaky. Im going with my mom, so have to wait for my brothers to be done with karate Seraf: Eh, its cool. Ill invite someone else. For now, I owe you a karate chop to the pelvis next time we hang out ;) HB Watermelon: Um…haha ok. No D2 with Grocery Store Girl. I am incredibly frustrated right now. I have not been able to get D2s with high quality women. I recently had D2s with the Brazilian chick and Swedish girls I picked up in Santa Monica during the Vince Kelvin bootcamp, but they were low quality women and bitches to boot. I will not see them again. As hot as they are, they do not reach my standards I set for women. So how do I solve my frustrations? SARGE!!!!! At least while I’m out buying those shirts I really do need. I text pula. He can’t go. Looks like I’m by myself today. I walk into the Brea Mall. Take a piss at the bathrooms by the food court. Walk around and scan the food court. No sets. Walk out of the food court. See a cute blonde walking opposite my direction. I approach her. Seraf: Hey, real quick before we both go about our business. HB Opposite: Yea? Seraf: I thought you were really cute. I had to come over here and see if there was more to you than just your pretty face. HB Opposite: lol Her body language turns submissive. She is laughing at anything I say, no matter how stupid. I could have told her I was gay and she still would have laughed. I have her hooked. I introduce myself and get her name. Use the handshake analysis routine. Found out she wants to be a nurse. Told her my mom is a nurse. I mention how we both need to get going, but used a Pula line. Seraf: This is what’s going to happen. I’m going to give you my phone and you’re going to put your number in my phone. Then I added my own twist. Seraf: I’m kinda busy so I’ll try to call you and we can have some great conversation. Maybe if I still like you, I’ll take you out on a little date. I held my eye contact and kept my strong frame. I gave my phone to her. She put it in. Not even 5 minutes. I let her go. I walk around more to see where else I can find targets. One number will not cut it. I’m going to build options. Blow Outs: 1) Sarged a hired gun at American Greetings card store. Worked my direct game on her. Asked her how long she has been working here. “Two Weeks” she says Seraf: Ever been hit on yet? HB Greetings: No, not yet Seraf: Can I be the first? She laughs. She is totally into me. She had to go cuz the manager made her ring up some other people. I was buying a card for my grandma, so I figured I visit her at the register. Told her to put her number on the back of the receipt. She said she has a boyfriend. I chose not to plow for some reason. Don’t really remember why. Probably because her manager was near by. 2) Walked into express after getting my first number close. Used the exact same opener on a girl I saw near the dressing room. She was responsive. “Sorry, I’m not usually this cold when first meeting people.” Talked a bit more, tried the Vince Kelvin number close routine. Didn’t work. 3) I chatted, flirted and busted the balls of the girl who rung up the shirts I bought at champs. I was on extremely limited time with her, so I just went for it. “Are you single?” “No” she says Ah well. 4) Used my cute opener on a girl walking into Hot Topic. She was really cute. We chatted for quite a bit and I tried the Vince Kelvin number closing routine again. “I don’t give out my number” she says “What a coincidence! I don’t’ ask for numbers!” I respond She was giving me resistance, but never walked away, even though she totally had the option to do it. She just didn’t want to seem easy and I could have plowed more, but chose not to. 5) I left the mall and went to target. I saw a girl walking in to target. I immediately parked my car and went after her. Saw her the birthday card section. Used my “have to talk to you” opener, but fucked up on the delivery. I must have been tired after sarging at the mall. “I’m done with this conversation” she says after awhile. “Do you want me to leave?” I ask her “Yes” she responds. Back to sarging at the Brea Mall I walk around more. Saw a Hispanic chick by herself. Seraf: Hey, real quick, my watch is broken. Do you have the time? HB Hispanic: Yea, it’s 4 something (forgot what time she gave) Seraf: Actually, my watch is fine. I just needed an excuse to come and talk to you. Her body language becomes submissive and collapses. She is laughing. She is hooked. I move into the power position and continue gaming. Introduce myself and get her name. use the handshake analysis routine. I read her correctly. Then I go into why she is shy and make a connection with her. She begins to smile more. I qualify her. Asking her what her top three hobbies are. She tells me she likes soccer. We build more connection of that. She tells me she is half Hispanic and half Italian. HUGE plus. I like Latinas and I love Italians. Obviously she was in hurry, so I decided to get the number. Used Vince Kelvin’s number close routine. It worked. Told her that I’m kind of busy so I would try to find time to continue the conversation. And maybe if I still liked her I would take her on a date. My friend gets tickets to the LA Galaxy games so we could go watch David Bechkam. She smiled at this thought. I twirl her goodbye and continue my sarge. I go down the escalators. I see a blonde girl in pink walking. I rush up to catch up to her. Seraf: Hey, I saw you walking here. I had to come and at least say hi. I’m Seraf I get her name, handshake analysis routine, she is hooked. We talk for a bit. Seraf: What are you doing right now? HB Pink: Nothing really… Seraf: okay, I need to buy some jeans. Why don’t you tag along with me and I can get another opinion on it? She turns and we start walking. We make fluff talk. I ask her about her job. She tells me she hates it and starts bitching about it. Not exactly the most attractive thing. We bounce to two other stores: H&M and Nordstrom. While at Nordstrom, we pass by the Hired Gun I picked up from the previous week. She looks at me and we make eye contact. We both smile at each other and I walk away because she was busy with some customers. We look for more jeans. We talk more. Eventually she goes on the phone and starts talking. She tells me it’s her boyfriend. We walk on our way to Nordstrom. We part ways. “I need to go this way before going to work.” “okay. Bye” I say to her “Bye” she responds And we part ways And awkward goodbye, but whatever. She was not my ideal chick. Couldn’t stand her complaining and bitching about her job. I go back to the second floor of the mall. See this amazingly gorgeous chick in flip-flops coming out of Hollister. Seraf: Hey, do you have the time? HB Flip-Flops: Yea, it’s ……. Seraf: Cool. Actually, I just needed an excuse to come talk to you. Otherwise, I would be kicking myself in the shins later when I got back home knowing I didn’t come here and at LEAST say hi. I’m Seraf I get her name, shake her hand, use the hand shake analysis routine. She likes it. We chat a bit more. I notice her fingers and use the ring finger analysis routine and slightly hint at my palm reading. I tell her she is a decadent and rebellious person. I was spot on. She is digging it. I ask her if she worked at Hollister. She said yes. Good thing I didn’t tell her I picked up her co-worker the previous week (who was hotter than her). Make more fluff talk and I make a connection with her. Found out She is catholic. Found out she wanted to be a teacher, but now she wants to be a child psychologist. She loves children. I ask her what she is doing now to try to set up a bounce. She says she is on her way to meet her mom and her boyfriend. Fuck. Another boyfriend. I forgot how I closed, but I think it something along the lines of “we should continue this conversation later” along with Vince Kelvin’s number close routine. I follow it up with the “mom mom” routine. I didn’t plan to call her at all after getting her number due to the fact she has a boyfriend, but she texted me later while I was at the gym “Hey its HB Flipflops. I’m getting Verizon right now. Here is my new number. 1310******4. Text me. :)” She wants to keep in contact with me. Might as well keep take her up on her offer I love direct game. It feels a lot more natural for me. I love not hiding my desire to get to know a random stranger. Given I still do have my routines and gambits. Still, direct is the style more suited for me. All of these closes were pretty strong, but out of all of them I think I have the best chance with the Italian/Hispanic girl. I’m pretty sure she got this “this was meant to be” feeling. D2s to come! Does anyone have advice for phone game/follow up? -Seraf Seraf on "How to handle this test" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=49#post-243 Mon, 14 Jul 2008 05:48:24 +0000 Seraf 243@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ Also, what is your goal? To get laid or to get laid by a specific girl? If it's to get laid by a specific girl, then you place too much value on one girl. An alpha male does not place too much value in one woman. If you choose not to go for a woman, it's not because you give up. It's because you have better things to do than waste your time with women who don't want to be around you. It's not your fault they're not cool enough to hang around with you. And I wouldn't call one woman not paying attention to you a "nuisance." It's more that she is just not paying attention. An Alpha Male must always be leading and in control. -Seraf Seraf on "How to handle this test" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=49#post-242 Mon, 14 Jul 2008 05:43:31 +0000 Seraf 242@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ You are not going to open every set and you are not going to sleep with every girl you number close. Pick-up is all about playing your numbers. This girl that was "impressed by your determination." How did things end up with her? Did you get her number? If you haven't fucked her, then you impressing her doesn't mean anything. Further, if you are the alpha male, she should be the one impressing you. You do not need her validation or to impress anyone for that matter. Move to another set to find someone that will sleep with you. Play the numbers. -Seraf solaar on "How to handle this test" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=49#post-241 Sun, 13 Jul 2008 22:02:08 +0000 solaar 241@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ thanks for the answers, however i see a bit of a conflict there. assuming youre an alpha male youre a) not being moved too much by such nuisances but also b) pursuing your goals. if that girl is your goal, you cant give up that easily now, can you? ive had a girl that i had to approach 4 times a night to finally have her melt. she said she was impressed by my determination. so "just move to another set" is perhaps not the best option? Hash on "Grocery Store Pick-Up FR" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=61#post-240 Sun, 13 Jul 2008 15:59:32 +0000 Hash 240@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ Yo Seraf! Send me an email at <a href="mailto:adamhashian@gmail.com">adamhashian@gmail.com</a> with you AIM or phone number! I have a few questions!! -Hash Seraf on "Grocery Store Pick-Up FR" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=61#post-239 Sun, 13 Jul 2008 09:15:09 +0000 Seraf 239@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ First Grocery Store Pick-Up FR 7/12/08 I need a fucking phone card. My dad has been telling me to keep my minutes low. I found out today I was over my limit. Now I needed to go buy a phone card. I heard I can buy one at ralphs. There was one near my work place, so I figured I’d stop by. I roll into the parking lot, blasting “big pimpin” by Jay-Z. And there she was. A brunette cutie in green. Caught my eye faster than titties at a strip club. My first thoughts entering my head: I AM GOING TO APPROACH THAT GIRL!!!!! No matter what, it will be a learning experience. I’ve been in the game for about a year now. I can honestly say I have little AA IF ANY at all during day game. 80% of my sarging has been during the day. I park my car. I enter Ralphs. I look around for a brunette cutie in green. She is nowhere in sight. She is early in her shopping spree so she can’t be far. I came in for a phone card, but I need to blend in……look around seraf look around…. …AHA!!! A shopping basket!!!! I’ll take one around with me just to fit into the venue, similar to how I would have a drink in my hand during night game. I walk past the aisles looking for her like Bobba Fett looking for a mother fucker to kill after having a bad day at work. I walk faster aisle after aisle….looking for a brunette cutie in green… There she was! Walking that way! I turn in the next aisle and arrive at the other end. Look to my left. She is not there. To my right. THERE! She is looking at the butter. Time to make my move. I walk faster….my eyes are zoning into the moment….my heart pounding slightly harder and faster as I begin to deliver my opener…. Seraf: Hi…. HB Brunette: Hi I look at her. She looks at me. I let the tension build. She cracks a SMILE Bam. I’m in. Seraf: I think you’re kinda cute. I had to come over here and find out if there was more to you than just your face…. HB Brunette: lol…. She is giving that nervous laugh. I’m in. Game On Seraf: Hi, I’m Seraf HB Brunnette: Hi, I’m Lauren (I forgot if her name was Laura or Lauren…damnit…) I shake her hand. This was a perfect opportunity to do my handshake analysis routine, but I guess I was so nervous talking to her that it was kind of hard for me to remember my usual shit. Seraf: What’s good with you Lauren? HB Brunnette: Nothing….just shopping for a girls night tonight…. Seraf: what are you, baking something? From this point on, it was mostly Qualification and Comfort building. What more attraction do I need to build? I already had her from “hello.” The fact that I had enough balls to approach her during the day was all the attraction I needed. Instead, I unconsciously went into qualification and comfort. It felt more like a natural conversation. The thing I’ve learned about using direct openers during the day game is they are hit or miss. Either the woman will be extremely attracted to you from the beginning or they will completely dismiss you. Still, I find direct opening much easier. It feels so much more natural to tell a woman I want to get to know her. Things I found out about her while qualifying: -She is having a girl’s night out -She is an art major -She is a dancer -She has friends from nor cal -I told her I was Filipino. She told me her ex was Filipino. I took this as an IOI -She used to live in Florida -She goes to Chapman University used a false take-away when I learned this. Told her I couldn’t talk to her because chapman kids always come into my work. By mentioning I “work,” I use an attraction gauge. If she asks me where I work, she is investing into the conversation, thus she is attracted. I may have overdone a D2 by inviting her to three different types of hang outs. Salsa, open mic night and something else I can’t remember. After conversing for a bit, I decided to close. Seraf: This is what’s gonna happen, I have to get to work cuz I work right down the street. You are going to ask me for my number and we are going to meet up sometime and have some great conversation. (Pula line) HB Brunnette: Forgot what she said I use Vince Kelvin’s Area Code phone number close and get her number, followed by the mom routine. Before I go I tell her how I’m going to call her watermelon. She asks if it’s b/c she’s big and fat, which she wasn’t. She was quite petite. I told her to turn around. Behind her there was some stacked watermelons being sold for 59 cents a pound. The watermelons and her green dress shirt were both in my plain view. Then I say my goodbye, give her a twirl and hopefully leave her wanting more lilez0521 on "Seraf Picks Up Romanian Girl" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=57#post-238 Wed, 02 Jul 2008 10:43:19 +0000 lilez0521 238@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ what's the Euro kiss? lilez0521 on "Work Sarging FR" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=60#post-237 Wed, 02 Jul 2008 10:23:19 +0000 lilez0521 237@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ So I work in the photo lab at Walgreen's and you meet/see some very interesting people working in a place like that. As i'm walking towards the photo lab see this chick standing at one of the kiosk machines, and she's kind of dressed down(sweats,t-shirt,flip flops), but absolutely gorgeous HB9.(I figure what the hell, i'm perfectly capable of talking to her and creating an attraction). She then calls out to me and she says, "The machine won't read my memory card", and i proceed and walk over to help her out. So i'm standing next to her and i get the memory card to work and then she and I lock eyes, and i held her gaze until she looked away.(after reading a few articles on the site about body lingo and eye contact i figured what the hell i'll try some out on her and see what happens). So then, after locking eyes, her shooting a little smile, and me negging her, she puts her head into her hands all while her body is pretty much aligned with mine. After helping on one machine, we switch to another one and she sits down in a chair and out of nowhere she hits me on my arm(here comes the kino and i guess its a great thing that she initiated it 1st IOI) and tap her back and i'm like who said you can hit me? So i decide to eject and go take my break. (i didn't want to linger around to long)and I go to the bathroom after punching out, and i ignore her on my way to the bathroom, however, on my way back i see that she is on her knees in the chair so she can see the screen, and I start laughing at her and i tell her, "God, you don't even realize how ridiculous you look right now." So i go to my break and eat and print her pictures after my break. Then she comes back and i saw her out of the corner of my eye and as soon as she asked me could i help her out, all of a sudden i got that anxious/nervous feeling that you get when you're around someone you're attracted to.(I'm thinking shit i played it cool thus far and now i get nervous DAMMITTT!!!!, but i maintain my James Bond-like reserve and keep on truckin). So while i'm ringing her she asks me about one of her pictures and what was wrong with it, and i neg her by sayin well other than the fact that you're in it and some other stuff... all in all i wind up giving her the nickname Ms. Rude & Obnoxious, and so she leaves and that's that. I didn't think about closing her or anything just trying to build on some things. Then the next day I'm helping one of my regulars out and the chick pops back up. So i'm doing something for my reg and Ms. R&O is like "Can you check me out?" and my reg says, "Not while he's doing something for me" and i respond by saying something along the lines of don't bother me while i'm working on this. I was almost done anyways so I walk over by my reg and she says she had to go back home and get her money and she tells the girl, "Okay now you can have him" and my response was "No way she can't have me". Now the whole time while this is going on and i didn't realize it til later this girl is still here after seeing and being told that i was busy. MAJOR IOI!!!!(Red Flags and all sorts of buzzers should be going off oh well...). So as i'm ringing her up i say "Well Ms. R&O, so you just had to some back and bother me again eh?", and she rambled on for a little bit, and then i tell her what her total was and she says, "Give me a quarter i dont want to break another dollar". I looked at her and said "What the fuck do i look like to you?" and she's like "Well, don't curse it's Sunday" and just look at her like whatever and i almost told her, "You know i left my mom at home a few hours ago..." So she's leaving and once again i really hadn't been thinking about closing or anything, so i just left it at that and went on about my business... I wanted to kick myself after realizing the fact that she actually shot me a few IOI's, but eh no sense in beating up about it. Probably pretty lengthy, but eh oh well... lilez0521 on "Seraf Picks Up Nordstrom's Hired Gun" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=59#post-236 Wed, 02 Jul 2008 09:39:19 +0000 lilez0521 236@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ Man that hired gun opener is fire man. When i would say seraf let me borrow some of the confidence and shit, well i dont need any ive got my own mojo. Great Post. Seraf on "Seraf Picks Up Nordstrom's Hired Gun" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=59#post-235 Tue, 01 Jul 2008 10:44:24 +0000 Seraf 235@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ Nordstrom Jewelry Hired Gun FR 6/30/08 Location: Brea Mall I went into Macys looking to approach the hottest hired gun I see. There she was. Behind the counter where watches are sold. As all Nordstrom employees do, she was an excellent dresser. I used my new hired gun opener. Seraf: And I have one thing to say to you before I go about my business She did not hear me. Her head was down fixing some watches under the counter. Okay, scratch that JTR line. I need her attention. Seraf: Hey, I have a question before I take off and go about my business. HB Watches: Okay Seraf: My friend Oliva works at the Macys at the Block of Orange HB Watches: This is Nordstrom’s Seraf: yea, I get those two confused all the time. Anyway, I meant Nordstroms. Anyway, she told me this one is supposed to have the most good looking employees in all of Southern California. HB Watches: Awwww…why thank you! Seraf: So I had to ask…..did I come on a bad day? Or are you guys just not that busy? HB Watches: *starts to qualify herself* I cut her off Seraf: I glad to see you don’t let that affect you. You let your radiant smile and charming personality do all of your work. I see why Nordstrom’s hired you. HB Watches: awww, why thank you! I run the finger analysis routine on her. She likes it. She wants me to teach it to her. So I do. She is smiling. I have attraction right off the opener. Time for some qualification, comfort and rapport building Things I learned about her: -She is a 23 year old student @ Cal State Long Beach When she told me this, I did a false take away saying “Long Beach? Omg, I can’t even talk to you. I go to CSUF! We are Rivals! She builds rapport by saying how we are more friends, not reivals. -She is majoring in fashion and design I tell her I am into fashion. She says she can tell by the way I dress. I take this as an IOI. -She has been Laser Tag once. When she was little I use this to set up the D2 I give her an IOI after investing in me by saying her personality is winning me over and I see why Nordstrom hired her. After awhile I decide to eject. I tell her I want to take her laser tag and shoot her then have great conversation afterwards. She agrees. I get her number. We exchange. I set up the D2. -Seraf Seraf on "Seraf Picks Up Moving Target" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=58#post-234 Tue, 01 Jul 2008 10:19:44 +0000 Seraf 234@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ Walking Perla FR 6/30/08 Location: Brea Mall Seraf: There! Girl in Black! Go! Now! Approach! Profile: No, I can’t! She’s seen me already! She was a walking set. Moving opposite us. I had been trying to make Profile approach some sets at the Brea Mall. He wouldn’t do it. I was not about to let such a gorgeous woman not be approached. Time to go. She walked past me a little bit, I turned a 180 and started walking with her Seraf: …And I only have one thing to say to you before I take off and go about my business HB Walking: Okay…. My god she was gorgeous. What pretty eyes. At least a 9. Seraf: Those are some cool shoes. I couldn’t help but notice that it matched your shoes. Did that happen on accident or did you plan it that way? HB Walking: No, it was an just happened Seraf: I know how sometimes the best things in life can “just happen” right before your very eyes. (NLP stuff) We were in the middle of the walk way. Time for a compliance test. Seraf: Move over to the side real quick just so we’re not in the way (a move Mythical suggested to me yesterday) She moves with me. Compliance. I run the handshake analysis routine on her. Analyzed her more Seraf: My name is Seraf btw HB Walking: My name is Perla Seraf: really? You are the second perla I’ve ever met in my entire life (small neg) Followed by my Hand Hug. She liked it. Seraf: You have great style btw. Lets take a look at you. Twirl for me She twirls. It was another compliance test. I had a small amount of attraction (investment). It was time to build rapport through qualification and comfort Seraf: What brings you out here today? HB Walking: Looking for a job Seraf: Lemme see… *Takes the piece of paper she was holding. It was a job application* The paper says “cosmetics” on it. She is applying to work at some make-up place. Seraf: Cosmetics? Wow, I see you are very good with it. Not that you need it though…. HB Walking: *smiles* I build more rapport. Here is what I learned about her: -She is another shy person. -She wants to be an actress cuz she wants to be noticed -She was in the mall looking for a job -She has a reserved personality cuz she still cares about what people think about her -She has a younger sister by two years and brother who is 9. She is the oldest. -She had all the responsibility put on her. It made her grow up and become a stronger and more independent person. This girl was REALLY hard to open up. She was so reserved. But as I build rapport and was myself, she started to crack smiles. I was telling her about my hypnosis session. She was smiling at it. I decide to eject. Ran Vinces number close routine, the “mom mom” routine, followed by a hug, European kiss and a twirl in the other direction. I tell her We will meet up later for some great conversation. She looked at me and smiled as she walked off. Seraf on "Seraf Picks Up Romanian Girl" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=57#post-233 Tue, 01 Jul 2008 09:51:48 +0000 Seraf 233@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ Romanian Girl FR 6/30/08 Location: Brea Mall She was there. Sitting by herself. Eating a Carl’s Jr. Normally I like to approach one sets by themselves. But I didn’t think she was as good looking as other one sets I’ve seen sitting by themselves. At best she was an 8. I’m sure if she dressed herself up more she would look better, but there was a certain cuteness to her that she was noticeable. I didn’t want to approach her at first. In fact, I saw a two set I approached earlier that day. I went to talk to them instead (I didn’t number close them b/c they were fucking high school. Thus the problem with day game. Some hot women you run into may not be of legal age). However, for some reason every time the Carl’s Jr. girl caught my eye and I looked over at her, she would be looking at me and she would look away. Pre-Selection at work  I was waiting for Profile (My wing) to get his Carl’s Jr. I was chatting with the two high school girls while he was in line. Finally, Profile gets his food, but has to go to the bathroom. He wants me to hold his food. So I do it. Fuck Profile. I’m not gonna wait for him like some dumb bitch. Wait a minute, that Carls Jr girl is still around. Might as well talk to her. I go up to her. Seraf: ….And I have on this to say to you before I go about my business and my friend gets back. HB Carls Jr: Okay…. (She is smiling and has a laughing tone. Obviously she WANTED me to come talk to her) Seraf: Do you have ANY idea what’s going on right now? HB Carls Jr: No….*still smiling* Seraf: We having…..right now….a 100%....completely RANDOM conversation! HB Carls Jr: LOL Once again, credit is due where it is due. Thank you J the Ripper Seraf: So what brings you about here? HB Carls Jr: I’m taking a break from work Seraf: Where do you work? HB Carls Jr: Sears Seraf: You work at sears? Omg, I can’t even talk to you….*body rocks out* HB Carls Jr: Why? Seraf: I use to work at sears. The management was so crappy. This thread sucks. Time to change it. Seraf: I’m Seraf btw HB Carls Jr: I’m M---- I hold my hand out to shake hers. She complies. I run the hand shake analysis routine. I was dead on. I have attraction now. It was time for qualification and comfort. I build rapport with her. Things I find out about her: -She works at sears b/c she needs money -She is a shy person. She cares about people’s judgements on her. -She is Romanian -She has strict parents When she tells me she was Romanian, I laugh to myself. She wonders what I’m laughing about. I tell her I have three Romanian friends. One of them is named “Pula.” She doesn’t believe me. I show her my phone. I show her Pula’s name in my phone. She laughs. HB Carls Jr: You know what that means, right? I spend the rest of the time building a connection. I tell her how I use to be shy. If I was the way I was, I would not be able to come up to her and flirt with her (yes I said that to her). After awhile, it was time to eject. Seraf: This is what’s going to happen. You are going to give me your number and we are going to meet up later this week for some great conversation. HB Carls Jr: Woah, I’m not allowed to date guys. Seraf: That’s cool. I’m not allowed to flirt with girls. HB Carls Jr: lol Seraf: Besides, I didn’t say it was a “Date.” I don’t know you well enough to want to take you out on a date yet. I said we were going to have great conversation HB Carls Jr: Okay. She gives me both her numbers, I give her the Euro kiss goodbye. -Seraf Seraf on "Serafs NEW NEW Hired Gun Opener" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=56#post-232 Tue, 01 Jul 2008 08:53:25 +0000 Seraf 232@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ Used this opener three more times today. Got 2 number closes and didn't try for the third one. Here are some tips with this opener: -Obviously, this opener is an instead neg. Therefore, this should only be used on SUPER HOT hired guns. Abercombie/Hollister employees tend to have high egos. Maybe it's b/c they are usually hired for their looks and slim bodies. thus this opener will be perfect for them. -Deliver this opener as if it no big deal. If you make it a big deal, you will just be an asshole. -Seraf Seraf on "Serafs NEW NEW Hired Gun Opener" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=56#post-231 Mon, 30 Jun 2008 09:43:41 +0000 Seraf 231@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ Tried this out today after a bootcamp with Vince Kelvin. Mini FR @ Abercombie and Fitch Seraf: Hey. I have a question for you Hired Gun: Yea? Seraf: My friend Angela (She is real) works at the A&F in Brea. However, she told me that this A&F is supposed to have the best looking employees in Southern California. Did I come on a bad day? Hired Gun: Ouch..... Seraf: However, I'm glad you don't let that affect you. It SEEMS (girl language) to me you let your warming personality do the work in winning over your customers. Hired Gun: Thank You.... Then go on from there. I would recommend you only use this on the SUPER hot employees. Obviously, this opener is still under construction. I will make tweaks as necessary. But if anyone would like to test it out and give me feed back on how to tweak it, that would be awesome. *please only tweak if you have tested it yourself* I have only used this once, but it was MONEY (I made it up on the spot) -Seraf Seraf on "Why are girls staring at me on the dance floor?" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=55#post-230 Mon, 30 Jun 2008 09:33:23 +0000 Seraf 230@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ If you are tuning out to everything in the world and doing shit to amuse yourself, women will notice that and find it attractive. This is called "Social Freedom" Note there is a difference between Social Freedom and Social Intelligence (AKA Calibration) -Seraf altair on "Why are girls staring at me on the dance floor?" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=55#post-229 Mon, 30 Jun 2008 01:36:22 +0000 altair 229@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ Last night I was in a club having fun on the dance floor, right in the middle of it. Top40s was playing. I wouldn't say that I'm a stellar dancer but 1) I spent many nights dancing alone at home in front of the mirror to be more comfortable moving my body 2) A couple of girls have told me that I am a decent dancer So I am pretty confident dancing at clubs and I usually go right to the middle of the dance floor and start moving to the beat. I started to notice that whenever I dance and would lift my eyes up and look around in the crowd, there would always be girls staring at me from all directions within a 5 meter radius. Some would break off eye contact very quickly and some would keep it for 5+ seconds. Very rarely some would smile. My question is this. Am I a good dancer and girls just like watching, or am I actually a terrible dancer and those looks are looks of pity. Seraf on "Seraf Gets Hired Gun: Virgin Records FR" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=54#post-228 Fri, 27 Jun 2008 10:01:47 +0000 Seraf 228@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ FR: Virgin Record Store Hired Gun I feel most comfortable in the day. I take advantage of the fact women don’t expect to be approached during the day. Like grown Lion pouncing on a baby Lamb. I like Lions. They are very furry. I walked into Virgin Records at the Block of Orange in Orange. I went work. Scanning the rows ready to approach the next thing I see that has a vagina. I see a girl wearing red. She is at the far end of the row. It would be quite the distance to walk to approach her. Fuck it. Walk. Now. Go. I walk past her a little bit… Seraf: …..And I only have one thing to say to you before I go look for my friend again (Credit J the Ripper for this opener. This is the first time I’m trying this out.) HB Red: What? I don’t think she heard me the first time. I could have sworn I said this clearly and slowly. She either was surprised I started talking to her or she was too into her work to hear me clearly. She was holding a clip board and some pen, probably recording the stocked CDs. I repeated the opener. This time I looked away while talking to her to create some disinterest. I’m talking over the shoulder. HB Red: What’s that? Seraf: Do you have any idea what’s going on right now? HB Red: No, what? Seraf: We are having a TOTally random conversation! HB Red: lol. Thank you J the Ripper. Reading your FRs has changed my game. By this time I have gotten a good look at her face. The way her hair was so stringy yet it brushed itself so well against her face. The two lip pearcings on her bottom lip. Hey eyes. My God those were gorgeous eyes. I could look at those eyes forever. Seraf: Yes! You are such a friendly person! Hi five! We slap hands. She kind of grabs my hand and holds it for like half a second. I took this as an IOI. Man I have already attracted this girl and it hasn’t even been 1 minute. My game has improved so much in these past 11 months. The fact she grabbed my hand made me go into my own, self-developed IVD routine. Seraf: Interesting, do you have ANY idea what you just did? (Creating more anticipation and suspense) HB Red: What? Seraf: You just did a Hand Hug! HB Red: What’s that? Seraf: Show me your hand again (small compliance test) She holds her hand up. I give her my hand and we are doing the Hand Hug (A big hand-holding kino routine. Girls think this is cute for some reason) I go into the hand-hug routine. I explain it, and how because of this hand hug, our souls mix and some of my soul is in her and some of her soul is in me, kinda like the Yin-Yang effect. Teaching her about this hits the professor/wizard archetype as described by Vince Kelvin. Seraf: And now some of my soul is in you, thus you feel more enlightened. And some of your soul is in me…..is that why I feel a little bit ADD? (Slight neg) HB Red: LOL I’m not ADD!!! I have made her laugh so much by now, I realized I was dominating the conversation. I needed to get her talking. Seraf: Now I am curious. What makes you want to work here? I forgot what she said. Something about how she used to work elsewhere, but now works here cuz it’s walking distance. If I am to truly vibe with this girl, I need to learn to truly listen to them for hooks, just like Bobby Rio says. Seraf: You must also like music a lot to work here. HB Red: yes Seraf: If I had to guess…kinda punker? (I guessed cuz of her piercings) HB Red: Yes. (She names her bands. Haven’t heard of any of them). Seraf: Yes, Music has been a big part of my life. I know you must listen to music a lot while laying IN BED…. …..WITH ME, hip-hop has been a big part of my life. Notice the word choices. It’s kinda NLPish. I got this from Vince Kelvin. Thank you Vince. I go into my comfort story about how Hip-Hop built my confidence. I don’t think I delivered it well. I need to work on delivering this story. Nonetheless, she was still standing next to me. She wanted me. I’m the best thing that has happened to her this whole week. She knows it. I know it. Did some more qualifying. I mention to her I’m an interpersonal communications at Cal State Fullerton. HB Red: Are you talking to me for some kind of project or paper? Seraf: No, I’m talking to you because I saw you standing here and I was genuinely interested in talking to you. This was a congruence test. What I said was fine, but I should have said something more direct. Something along the lines of, “No, I saw you here because you looked interesting and I want to take you out on a date.” I don’t wanna say “I wanted to talk to you cuz you looked cute.” I tend to not compliment on looks. I have real standards and I abide by them. I think I made her smile. We start talking about school. She says she doesn’t go to school. I think we talk about her friends. I forget where the conversation went. Some older woman wearing the same shirt as her comes by. Older woman: *says something about the CDs on the lower rack* She begins looking at them. This is when I realized I was gaming a hired gun. It never occurred to me till just now. I think this older woman must have been her superior. HB Red: It was nice meeting you. She had to get back to work. I didn’t want her to get in trouble. I smile and walk away. O well, it was nice while it lasted. I felt I played my game well…. I went by the DVDs near the entrance. (My Wingman) Pula was there. Pula: Why didn’t you get her number? That’s when it hit me. Why DIDN’T I get her number? Fuck this. Seraf: You’re right. I’m gonna go get it right now. However, I couldn’t go back to her by myself. I didn’t want to appear try hard. I brought pula to show social proof. Not that I needed it, but it wouldn’t appear try hard if I had my friend with me after I had mentioned I was looking for him (See False Time Contraint). He walked with me around the aisles. I had me re-opener planned it had to be delivered a certain way and we had to approach a certain way in order for me to deliver it. We had to make it appear as if we were just passing by. I saw her again. Time for the Vince Kelvin re-opener. Seraf: OMG!!! How long has it been? 2 minutes??? HB Red: LOL!!!! I go in for the hug. I realized I did NOT kino enough. Thank you Bobby Rio for reminding me of the importance of Kino. Pula is still with me. I introduce him as the friend I mentioned earlier. I expected Pula to walk off and allow me to number close, but he stayed. And I could not get the number otherwise it would seem like 1) I only have the courage to go for her number when my friends are with me 2) She may feel pressured to give it to me if a friend was standing with me. I walked off with Pula, turned around and came back. He walked off into the next Aisle and got a girl’s number. I had my own to get. I went right back to her. Seraf: Hey. I think you are very interesting (should have given her a stronger compliment). I am interested in getting to know you more. We should hang out. Ever been Lazer Tag? I want to shoot you. HB Red: *Smiling* can I bring my Boyfriend? Fuck. She has a boyfriend. But is he around? I don’t see him. It’s not done yet. But I wouldn’t push for the number. I figured I would take her myspace and set something up with her for the future. Seraf: Sure. Bring your boyfriend, girlfriend, your mom, your neighbor, your dog, that alien living under your bed…. HB Red: lol. Seraf: Yea. It will be really fun. What’s a good way to get a hold of you? Do you have myspace? Facebook? HB Red: I don’t have facebook. I have myspace. Seraf: Great *busts out artist note pad* give me your myspace. HB Red: How about you give me your myspace? She was giving me a congruence test. Seraf: Wow, you don’t play fair do you? How about this….. I do style’s paper rip routine. Wrote my myspace on the first piece of paper, gave her the second to write down hers on the other. She tried to take the other piece of paper with my myspace. I wouldn’t let her. Seraf: Nuh-uh, play fair honey. HB Red: lol. How about I just give you my number? Do you get text? WTF?! Why is it she told me she has a boyfriend, yet she still gives me her number? Hey, I’ll take it. She gives me her number and I write my number on the other piece of paper with my mypace. I tell her I will talk to her later. (Should have given her a hug at this point). Look at her, smile and walk out. Seraf on "Seraf's New Hired Gun Opener!!!" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=53#post-227 Fri, 27 Jun 2008 07:37:34 +0000 Seraf 227@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ After I had been using the saturated, mindless-robotic openers for so long, I've started to develop my own IVDs, routines and openers. I am sharing one in this post that I created during some more day game action! SERAF'S HIRED GUN OPENER!!!! This opener is to be used for greeters at certain stores that have greeters such as Forever 21, Pac Sun, Macy's, etc. If you don't know what a greeter is: Greeters are people in clothing stores that stay near the front (occasionally pretending to be doing something). They will say "hello" to anyone that walks in or give another sort of greeting Here is how it goes: Walk in the store SMILING!!!! This is IMPORTANT!!! They need to see you are a guy who is full of happiness (because you are a man that gets laid) HB Greeter: Hello! How's it going? The "how is it going" words are the most important words. If she doesn't say that or another form of it, this opener cannot work. After she says, "how's it going," change your face so you are no longer smiling. Walk right up to her. And repeat what she said. "How's it going?" Try to make a sad face too. It may help. She will then either repeat her greet (Yes, how's it going?) or say something along the lines of "What's wrong?" This is where you go SUPER AFC EMO KID!!! Tell her everything that has gone wrong in an exaggerated fashion. Make it obvious you are playing. Tell her you broke your leg, your mommy told you she doesn't love you, your dog ran away from you, etc. Make it obvious you are playing around. If done correctly, she WILL laugh! And once a woman laughs, you are IN. I've used this twice on the day I came up with it. Example of this opener through a mini FR: *Walks into Pac Sun Smiling* HB Greeter: Hey! How's it going? *Turns into sad face. Walks up to greeter* Seraf: How's it going? HB Greeter: Yea! Seraf: Well, not so good. (Builds slight anticipation) HB Greeter: Why? Seraf: Well, so many bad things. I got a divorce this morning. My cat ran away. My dog ate my hamster. My kids told me they hate me. My mom forgot to put love into the peanut butter and jelly sandwich she made me this morning..... HB Greeter: lol! From there I was in. Her BT was pumped up and she was engaging in conversation with me. Why it works: In reality, it doesn't really matter what you say in your opener. But with this opener, you present a playful vibe and you let the HB know you are a fun person. Try it out. I'm interested in hearing people's feedback on this. -Seraf Seraf on "More Day Game Action: Seraf uses Passive Value to hook" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=52#post-226 Wed, 25 Jun 2008 04:32:32 +0000 Seraf 226@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ A note for everyone: I went out for some more day game today. I figured out why the girl in this FR stops looking at me. I'm so direct and confident in my approaches, women are intimidated by it (which is funny. I'm actually not an intimidating guy to begin with. I'm only about 5'5"). If a woman in the future is not making eye contact with you anymore, it means she sees you on a higher status than her. This is a sign that she is revealing her insecurities. Time to pull into comfort. Tell her a vulnerability story. -Seraf Hash on "More Day Game Action: Seraf uses Passive Value to hook" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=52#post-225 Sun, 22 Jun 2008 13:58:00 +0000 Hash 225@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ Seraf, good man, real good. I like how you are going out there and trying the shit out. I rarely cold approach and try and play more of the social circle game, but you are inspiring me to try this shit out... I'm your same age! You got some great stuff, i already know that you know you should have gotten the number sooner. Just go for it, you're pretty smooth. I have an idea for you, why don't you combine the two things you need to work on, you could have used your wing to say "Oh here's my friend so and so, we have to go do this, <insert number close>" That way, your wing arrives, you already know you have the number locked if you ask for it so just use him as an excuse for both of you to bounce and grab the number! -Hash Seraf on "More Day Game Action: Seraf uses Passive Value to hook" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=52#post-224 Sun, 22 Jun 2008 10:18:04 +0000 Seraf 224@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ Indoor Shopping Mall Sarging Note: I did not get the number, but I did so many things right I had to write this FR. Take note guys of how I present myself. -------- After a couple “warm-up” sets, I was pissed that I didn’t give those “warm-up” sets my all. I told my wingman Prelude “I will fuckin’ kick ass on the next set/girl I see.” I see a girl, by herself against the rail looking below onto the first floor of the brea mall. This will either be cool or be fucking boring. Let’s see what she’s got. Go up to her. Not thinking. Just be warm. Friendly. Smile….. Went to her left now touching the rails. Me: Hey, I have a quick question for you. But I can’t stay long. I need to look for my friends. Her: Okay. I’m holding eye contact. We our connecting through our eyes. I stare back confidently. I am holding myself confidently. I think I’m smiling. Woah shit, SHE is SMILING too! She is HOOKED. At this point it doesn’t matter what I say. All I just have to do is not fuck it up. Game On. I noticed her holding her phone. It was the only thing I can think of at the moment. Me: I noticed you are holding a phone…… Her: Yea? (Still smiling) Fuck, where am I going with this.....Think Seraf, Think…. Me: I need your opinion I’m an interpersonal communications major and I am experimenting on the best way to approach a woman to say, get her number. What do you think is better, talking to a girl indirectly or directly? This spur of the moment opener was influenced by a video I saw youtube by PUA training. Her: It depends. I forgot this conversational part, but somehow she says something along the lines of, “I think what you did was fine. Being direct is okay too.” Me: Okay, so what if I came up to you and started going, (switch to thugged out gangsta out for pussy accent attitude) Hey sweet THANG, can I get YO Numba?!? Her: *continues to laugh* Me: Let’s try it out right now. I reenact my approach. I see her and walk to her with a small cocky yet playful limp and those “shark” eyes that creepy people at clubs do. Basically I was playing around for my own amusement. I was bringing her into my reality. Her: See, that was good! Me: Why Thank you Her: Did you just come talk to me because I was holding a phone? Me: No, I just saw you standing here and thought you were kind of cute. So I just had to come talk to you otherwise I knew I would be kicking myself in the head later at home. Her: *Laughs very emotionally* IT’S ON!!!! IT’S ON LIKE DONKEY KONG!!!!! Me: You only live once. Why not live it up? Be adventurous. Her: Wow, I really respect that. All of a sudden she can’t look me in the eye. Yet, she is still investing, she is not moving around and she is obviously interested in me. She is playing with her hair and tossing it a little bit. Yet she can’t look me in the eye. What do you guys think? Anyway, back to the FR. Me: Yea. I’m Seraf Her: Name Confidential. Me: Really? – Runs cat routine Her: Laughs more Me: Cool. What brings you here today? Her: I’m here with my mom. I’m waiting for her Techincally I’m not supposed to be here. I’m grounded. (At this point I should have taken note she is on a real time constraint. I should have number closed early in the interaction) Me: Grounded? Now I’m curious as to the reason this happened. Her: My friend and I got in a fight while we were drunk. Me: Wow, you guys must be very close if you got in a fight. Her: Yea, she is my best friend. Me: When you guys fight, you are actually building on your friend ship. Building a bond is like building a muscle. You damage your muscles and they grow back stronger. When you fight with a friend, you damage the bond. If it doesn’t break, your friendship will grow back stronger. (I am conveying the Professor attribute, a la Vince Kelvin) Her: Wow, I never thought of that! That is so true! She looks at me. Her eyes are lit up. She is giving me this look where I know she wants me right there. She is puddy in my hands. And I have barely used any routines. This feels fucking awesome. Me: How long are you grounded? Her: It was supposed to be all summer. But then it got pushed back to a 3 months. Then one. Now two weeks. I get no driving privileges and can’t go anywhere, but I still get my phone! It was at this point where I should have number closed her. But we were deep in Rapport mode and switching through so may topics so fast. I couldn’t do it. Me: Your parents must want what’s best for you. They wouldn’t do it unless they care. Her: Yea. True. Me: You must be pretty close with your family. I am searching for values in her that I like. I love a woman who is close to her family. Her: Yea. My family and I are really close. (Goes on to talk about how close she is with her family) She is holding her phone in her hand. Someone calls her. Fuck, she is about to put me on hold to talk to the person on her phone. But a miracle happens. She IGNORES the person on her phone! HUGE IOI It was at this moment I took the liberty to check out her body. My god she was fucking gorgeous. A great figure, breast that pop out of her tank top, amazing legs, eyes and a smile to die for. 9.5 easily. We chat more, but things don’t go so well. I was close to number closing, but my wingman came in. Wing: are you hitting on my boyfriend? Her: Forgot what she said. I shift gears at this point, but not in a good way. Me: Nah, this is my good friend Prelude. This girl right here is my new gf, but only for the next 3 min. I put my arm around her to initiate some kino, but it was at this point the REAL time constraint comes in…. That’s right, the MOM comes in!!! (Before anyone wonders, don’t worry, this girl is 18. She still lives with her parents while she is attending Junior college). Mom: Hi! Who are you? Fuck, now I have to disarm the interference Me: Hey, I’m Seraf. Meet my friend Prelude. I gave her off to my wing. Hopefully he got the hint to distract her while I got the girls number. Unfortunately he couldn’t do it. I tunred to the girl to get her number, but her mom pulls her away to go to the glasses store to get her daughter’s eye checked. As she was getting dragged away, she calls back: Her: “Wait here, I’ll be right back! It was really nice to meet you!!!!” I can tell I made her day by the way she looked at me. I wanted her number badly. I wanted a D2 with her really badly. But I didn’t wanna wait there like a needy bitch. It would have been a huge DLV. Instead I walked into the store, gave her my number (as the mom watched) and said, “send me a text whenever” If I played my game right, she will call me. I’m not worried. There are plenty dozens of other women I plan to fuck that I will meet in the future. Positives of this Sarge: -Held eye contact was PASSIVE value. All I did was look her in the eye and she was attracted. -Another aspect of me she was attracted to was the fact I had the balls to go talk to her. Women will be attracted to a man with balls. -I was careful not to talk about myself so much. I asked her questions and elicited her values. I made her talk. I made her INVEST. -I was not try hard. -She wanted me. I know it. She knows it. Things to work on: -Find a way to send the wing off if I don’t need him -Number close earlier if you can Hash on "Solid Game" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=51#post-223 Sat, 21 Jun 2008 06:01:27 +0000 Hash 223@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ Hash here, i havn't been commenting much ever but I've been reading the site ALOT guys. I really like the 31 days to better game and I've been following the exercises. I recently broke up with my gf so i've been putting mental thought into gaming and working on single girls. I FINALLY hooked up with this one girl who I have had a crush on for a while (i thought i might have been in friend zone too). Even though I'm young, I've been studying this for years and I have a few tips on what to do! First of all, to start off the post, i read somewhere on here (i think it was one of Sebastian drake's techniques) that the best line to use to get into a girl's place was "can i use your bathroom?" say it very nonchalantly and you are 100% in her place. I used it tonight, first try success. It's the bomb. Make sure you get the first kiss over with early in the night, I got mine done right before I left after picking her up, it really sets the tone for the date. Eye contact is huge, search for it, keep it, don't break it, always try and look her deeply in her eyes. Lastly and most importantly. Lead. Never ask her opinion, just assume that you know best and tell her to trust you. I lead the whole night, throughout all the train stations, had a good time and just generally made her feel completely comfortable with wherever i was taking her. I was alone in her house, and might have been able to push for head / sex. But i just gave her a very passionate kiss, left her wanting more, and set up a date in the near future -Hash (p.s. Life is all about giving love guys, above all things, make sure when you are "gaming" a girl, it's out of love, and not the selfish need to "conquer women" or display your dominance) Magnet on "Fast Hired Gun Number Close" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=45#post-222 Mon, 16 Jun 2008 23:30:44 +0000 Magnet 222@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ thanks for sharing that. For me personally. it seems to be a lot of moving around. Like it may show that your putting too much effort into getting a laugh. You must have been pretty smooth with it. Its creative and i might try my own version of it next time i go to the mall. good stuff KoolKat86 on "Funny Threesome Pillow Fight Widget" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=50#post-221 Mon, 16 Jun 2008 19:45:28 +0000 KoolKat86 221@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ Since good grooming and dating go hand in hand, I think this message board may be interested in learning about this new product. The marketing company I work for is doing a promotion for Schick Quattro Titanium Trimmer. It is the first ever razor that shaves, edges and trims- The Titanium Trimmer features 4 titanium coated blades,1 edging blade for precision and an adjustable trimmer. We’ve also created a fun shareable widget that I think might be right up your alley. The Trim Flixx interactive widget allows you to upload your picture (or anyone’s pic) onto a racy pillow fighting video clip featuring 2 smokin’ hot ladies. It's very easy to do, and hilarious. 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Please read!" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=47#post-218 Mon, 16 Jun 2008 04:00:16 +0000 Bobby Rio 218@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ Hey i know im late on this.. but couldn't remember my password to login. I know your story well.. i dealt with a similiar girl about 2 years ago. I drove myself crazy over her for like a year and half. When it was good it was great.. but just as quickly she'd disappear or ignore my calls. Finally i deleted her number from my phone. Can't say i don't regret doing it as I haven't seen her in over a year and miss the hell out of her sometims... But I had to do it for my own sanity. Some girls will make you nuts. I agree with the others... if after all this time your still playing games.. you're better off moving on. If she pops into your life again.. by all means fuck her. but don't stress over her. Seraf on "How to handle this test" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=49#post-217 Sun, 15 Jun 2008 23:02:38 +0000 Seraf 217@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ To add further, if more than half the group has their attention wandering, it's best to move on to another set. -Seraf Seraf on "How to handle this test" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=49#post-216 Sun, 15 Jun 2008 23:01:11 +0000 Seraf 216@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ usually if a girl turns her back on you or even looks elsewhere, you've been blown out. it's not a shit test. In this situation, it's a group of girls. You need to juggle the attention of all of them. The best way to do this? Use "check-Ins." Example: Juggling a three set. Saying to everyone: Hey, that's cool! I've been to disneyland. My favorite ride is the Matter Horn. *Notices an obstacle is not paying attention* Have YOU ever been on that ride? ---->Saying it to the obstacle who may not be paying attention. HB ADD: Yea, I've been on that ride! See? Now all three girls are still involved. solaar on "How to handle this test" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=49#post-215 Sun, 15 Jun 2008 11:40:44 +0000 solaar 215@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ Heya, I'd love to hear your insights on how to handle the following situations: Let's say it's in a club or bar and you talk up a group of girls and one of them demonstratively shows dis-interest after a while as you talk and turns away from you. What's the proper way to react (or not react?) here in order to not loose status and better yet, get her involved again? Looking forward to some replies. Cheers. Seraf on "I need some advice! Please read!" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=47#post-214 Thu, 12 Jun 2008 19:54:05 +0000 Seraf 214@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ Dude, u can only play the game so much. There comes a point where you have to drop everything and be real. Seems like you've already got attraction and you don't need any further qualification. If SHE is past these phases, why are YOU stuck in these phases? Calibration man, CALIBRATION. Move on. Be real with her. That's the best way to hook any woman. You say you walked away like a man? A REAL man is non-needy, but he also KNOWS when CUT the shit. Call her. Tell her, "what are you doing?" If she's not doing anything, say "Cool, I'm coming to get you. This is what we're gonna do...." Be a man. You TELL her what you're gonna do. No more games. -Seraf Casper on "MySpace pickup (www.windowshoppingforwomen.com)" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=48#post-213 Thu, 12 Jun 2008 14:58:56 +0000 Casper 213@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ Race and Kelly's book is the best $40 I have ever spent. It works ver well and they help you every step of the way. Here is one of my success stories. Copperfield is my name on the forums at windowshoppingforwomen.com From: Girl Date: Jun 10, 2008 4:39 PM yeah i have no idea who you are either your pretty gorgeous tho u live in wilmington?? ahhhh i love the hookah bar ---------------------------------------------------- From: Copperfield Date: Jun 10, 2008 9:10 PM thanks your pretty gorgeous too in a nerdy way No but I visit there often though. I will be there this weekend. I have my own hookah and everyone says it is way better than any hookah bar. Me and my boys will be chillin on the beach. I'd ask you to join us buyt only if you promise not to destroy our sand castles or steal my Hannah Montana beach towel. ---------------------------------------------------- From: Girl Date: Jun 11, 2008 11:42 AM in a nerdy way?? haha im farrr from nerdy my love fuck hannah montana i like miley cirus =] umm i go to the beach like every other day this weekend however i will be in raleigh so maybe one day soon tho do u own one of the ones here in wilmington or somewhere else theres an egyptian one and another o0ne here it seems more arabian i have been to the egyptian one but everyone says that its not as good so... ---------------------------------------------------- From: Copperfield Date: Jun 11, 2008 2:18 PM Alright there buttercup. I have a blue Nile 3 hose hookah... look at my picture album "hookah Nights". I was in Raleigh last weekend so it looks like we keep missing each other. Maybe we can Smoke hookah and be gorgeous together sometime ... What is your favorite flavor? right now our party favorite is palmagranit. Shoot me your number and we can meet up in Wilmington sometime with my friends and hit the beach. As a bonus we get to be text buddies and I will send you witty charming jokes. How lucky are you!!!! peace out rainbow trout. ---------------------------------------------------- From: Girl Date: Jun 11, 2008 7:49 PM hahaha you crack me uppp umm i always go with the same group and they get mango pineapple and cherry i think.. its amazing i love fruity tobacco i used to smoke red wine clack n milds and apple and stuff like that then i was introduced to hookah haha how often do u come to wilm? ---------------------------------------------------- From: Copperfield Date: Jun 11, 2008 9:18 PM black and milds.... do you want to die???? lol. I go to Wilmington as often as I can find a reason. I love Wilmington a lot. The whole beach scene is awesome to me... maybe cuz I am Hawaiian? You must be shy. So I geuss i'll se you around then. Most likely not because Wrightsville beach is full of enough gorgeousness to enjoy my hookah with me. so you enjoy yourself young jellybean and sorry you'll be missing out on fiesta del Scott con mis amigos this weekend. adios ---------------------------------------------------- From: Girl Date: Jun 11, 2008 8:21 PM ohhhhhh hold upppp what makes you think that I BXXXX am shy?????? ---------------------------------------------------- From: Copperfield Date: Jun 11, 2008 9:28 PM Well I invited you to endless never ending fun filled nights of hookah, beach fun, and hilarious text messaging, but you seemed to refuse to pass along your number. I know it's not my fault, I'm not boring, a jerk, ugly, or stupid. so i guess it's just that you are shy... It's okay if you are I won't judge you. ---------------------------------------------------- From: Girl Date: Jun 11, 2008 8:30 PM haha no boo im not shy im as far from shy as it gets xxx-xxx-xxxx its broken at the moment as of yesterday i should get it back like in the nxt cpl days ---------------------------------------------------- From: Copperfield Date: Jun 11, 2008 9:37 PM *sigh* well lucky ducky. you now have the privilege of being best friend # 12. As a complementary you get a special bracelet and a free back rub on your birthday. looking forward to hanging out in the future and shareing friends. ---------------------------------------------------- From: Girl Date: Jun 11, 2008 10:30 PM that sounds pretty sweet but do i have to wait til my next birthday?? its not til december lol Irish_Boy on "I need some advice! Please read!" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=47#post-212 Thu, 12 Jun 2008 09:25:49 +0000 Irish_Boy 212@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ But does that not go against everything that ive read or been thought?? I really dont fancy setting myself up tobe shot in the foot again! Could i get Bobby's or Mikes view on this?? athena on "I need some advice! Please read!" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=47#post-211 Thu, 12 Jun 2008 08:16:17 +0000 athena 211@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ i kind of agree with seraf. you dont have to play around, but you also dont want to be chasing her all over the internet. just send a message like he said, offer up a date. she either takes it or she doesnt. if she doesnt write back, just forget about it until she does. if she writes back and just wants to continue with the cute/fun talk - dont play into it. just offer another chance to meet in person. she already knows you, she either wants to spend time with you or she doesnt. but playing around like this isnt going to go anywhere. Seraf on "I need some advice! Please read!" http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/topic.php?id=47#post-210 Wed, 11 Jun 2008 21:36:19 +0000 Seraf 210@http://www.theseductionbible.com/field-reports/ Don't play games. You wanna see a woman, you fucking see her. No games. Text her, call her, whatever. "Hey, me, you, coffee, 2:37pm" Etc. No games. Do it. It seems like you've already played enough games with her already. Being real is the best way to hook a woman. -Seraf