All Posts Tagged With: "Approaching"
RSD”S Tyler Durden on Openers
Tyler Turden just sent me this short post about his take on openers, specifically opinion openers. Many people wonder if openers will still work with the exposure they’ve gotten via “The Game” and VH1’s Pick-up Artist. You can always count on RSD’s Tyler Durden for a unique perspective on anything related to [...]
10Dec2007 | Bobby Rio | 32 comments | Continued3 Secrets to a Natural Approach
I know I promised the “Fortaleza Nights” post but I’m still in the process of putting it all together. I am in Brazil and find it difficult to sit at a computer for more than ten minutes without feeling that I am wasting precious time. But trust me, the story is worth the wait!
In the [...]
The Top Five Mistakes Men Make When Approaching Women
Here is a good article from Christian Hudson, of Master the Vibe. Christian talks about the 5 biggest mistakes men make when approaching women, and I must say, I agree with all of them.
Christian and Sebastian put out a great monthly audio program where they tape record real conversations with women to show you [...]
Its Saturday Night Do You Know Where Your Girlfriend Is?
I’ve come to the conclusion that Saturday is the better of the two weekend nights to go out looking to score. My reasoning:
Friday nights seem to be girls/guys night out. Saturday seems to be the night couples spend together. Even for me when I was in relationships, Friday night would be [...]
Pick-up Artist Openers, Openers, Openers
It seems that the topic of openers is all the rage lately. (or hasn’t it always been?) What are good openers? Will Mystery openers still work? Are canned openers good?
Mike Stoute and I did a podcast about openers a few months ago, but I feel that its time to write on [...]
Making Your Approach Go Smoothly
We all know how uncomfortable a botched approach can be. Hell, its what most people fear. The key to a good approach is making it seem natural and un-intrusive. If you have been watching Mystery’s The Pick-up Artist you’ve seen examples of good approaches and you’ve seen examples of bad approaches. (more [...]
27Aug2007 | Bobby Rio | 0 comments | Continued
What To Talk About With Women
I guess a huge fear that contributes to so many of us experiencing approach anxiety is the fear of having nothing to say once the opener ran its course. If you watched last weeks VH1 show “The Pick-Up Artist” you saw Mystery criticize Pradeep for continuing a thread that had run its course. [...]
25Aug2007 | Bobby Rio | 4 comments | ContinuedAre You Battling Approach Anxiety?
Watching Vh1’s The Pick-Up artist last Monday, I have to say that it brought back some not so fond memories. Man, I could feel Alvaro’s pain as he sat there alone struggling the entire night to approach even one girl. I’ve been there. Everyone has. And it fucking sucks big time.
I was a pretty shy [...]
Using Openers With Confidence (for the aspiring PUA)
I just got back from a morning meeting. It was my first time at this new business networking association that I joined. At the meeting they have what they call a sixty second commercial for each member. This means that all the members have to stand in front of the group and [...]
26Jul2007 | Bobby Rio | 0 comments | ContinuedCliff’s List Newsletter 6/30/2007
I really enjoy recieving these Cliff’s List newsletters. They really contain good information and cover members of the community that aren’t as famous as guys like Mystery, Strauss, DeAngelo, and Jeffries. But these guys have some important stuff to say… So I suggest taking a look below…
30Jun2007 | Bobby Rio | 0 comments | Continued
Vibe Mastery
There is some really great information packed in this newsletter from Sebastian Drake of the Approach. This is from is vibe mastery online program. There are some tidbits on topics like paying for women, the art of the pause, storytelling techniques, and some high quality examples of successful interactions with women. I suggest [...]
23Jun2007 | Bobby Rio | 0 comments | ContinuedThe Boyfriend Experience Ebook - By Michael Stoute
Ok Guys, I have finally decided to write a short ebook talking about the Boyfriend Experience mentioned in our podcasts. It’s short and to the point, no fluff in here… Can serve as a good piece of material to read over and over when you start feeling hungry in the beginning stages of a relationship. [...]
13Jun2007 | MikeStoute | 0 comments | ContinuedThe Gunslinger Walk
Heres a great article by Sebastian of Master the Vibe about projecting confidence in the way that you walk.
The Gunslinger Walk by Sebastian Drake
Introduction to the Gunslinger’s Walk
Throughout society, people often get into a situation where two
people are walking directly at each other. Whenever this happens to
you, one of three things happens typically:
I. [...]
11Jun2007 | Bobby Rio | 6 comments | ContinuedEngage!
I recently came across Steven Nash’s work and find him extremely knowledgeable. I would recommend checking out his ebook How to Get a Girlfriend.
Initiating Conversation by Stephen Nash
Have you been standing in a social environment, perhaps a club, or
even a friends party, only to be PERMANENTLY STUCK to the wall with
a drink shielding you the [...]
How to Really be a PUA
I found this on the Bristol Lair. It is a collection of Tyler Durdens posts on Fast Seduction. Although many people have various feelings about Durden, he does write some good stuff. If you take the time to read all of this I guarantee you find a few gems of information.
-Bobby
A Collection [...]
Mastering Hard Sets
This article comes from Badboy’s crew. I am hearing good things about his new ebook. Anyone have it?
Mastering Hard Sets by Badboy
Not every set will go easily. Some will screw with you and not give you any initial signs of Attraction. Deal with it. This is part of the game. In all honesty, some of [...]
“Are You a Player?”
Badboy is direct in his approach to the game. And I love it. Below is how he answers the female’s famous question, “Are you a player?” To learn Badboy’s Direct Game check out his ebook.
When a girl asks “Are You a Player” by Badboy
At some point, if a girl likes you and feels like you’ve [...]
ASF QuickReferenceSheet
I was surfing the web and came across this post. These are 10 rules for the aspiring PUA. I think it was a great post.
10 Rules for the PUA by Magneto
Rule 1: Know the Process
Approach, Fluff, Values Elicit, Kino & Mirroring, Patterns, # or *
Close.
You must initate each stage. This is critical.
REMEMBER rapport isnt a [...]
Does it Scare You to Approach Women
Here is a good article on approaching women from David DeAngelo. If you want to learn more about his ebook check out the reviews here.
Are You Scared to Talk to Girls by David DeAngelo
I’d like to address a problem that is so common
that it seems silly to even mention it…
It’s the idea that too [...]
The Definative Bar/Club Game
Recently Donovan over at Attraction Chronicles posted this old piece. I thought it would be worth reposting here to introduce you all a little more to natural game. This is his formula for a natural way to meet women.
The Natural Way by Craig
One of the main reasons why I succeed in bars and most [...]
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